International Fisting Day!!

As a baby dyke, I was tricked into believing that fisting was illegal to show on film because my girlfriend at the time worked at a video store in Chicago well-known for its porn collection and one day she came home with a handful (pun definitely intended) of fisting porn. She was told that it was illegal and they had to clear all the shelves of any movies showing the entirety of a hand entering someone’s orifice. And I thought, “How bizarre! They can show someone getting fucked with a fire extinguisher…and that’s way bigger than my fist!” It just didn’t make any sense to me. And still didn’t to this day.

Then, about a week ago, I noticed facebook was blowing up with this: International Fisting Day. And I was elated to see someone(s) stepping up to set the record straight. Or queer, as it were. And it definitely is. Fisting is a huge part of queer sexuality and I believe that if it was more mainstream (read: straight), it wouldn’t be considered nearly so taboo and, hence, censored by the porn industry. Which is sad and unfortunate. (Straight folk deserve the joys of fisting too!!) And exactly why I’m participating in International Fisting Day by blogging about it. I want to help raise awareness and libidos, pique curiosity and trust, promote healthy sexuality and openness. (You’ll quickly learn that my puns are always intended.)

So yes. Yes, please. Fist! Fist away! (Please use plenty of lube and patience, especially if it’s your first time. And keep breathing–so important for everyone involved!) Check out Jiz Lee’s and Courtney Trouble’s sites–to see how YOU can participate! We need your help in this call to action. Raise a fist in solidarity!

Fisting is a truly magical and sacred act. There is a certain degree of closeness (ahem) and intimacy that just isn’t found in any other sex acts. And all woo aside, it makes me squirt like nothing else. Riding a hand that is twisting back in forth inside of me is a surefire way to get me to soak your sheets. And whatever else may be in my line of fire. Because fisting is fiery and scintillating and just plain amazing. Amazing that our bodies can come together in such astoundingly beautiful ways, that we fit so perfectly, that we can bring each other to such high heights with just the twist of a wrist.

There is something about that moment…(perhaps you’ve experienced this, perhaps not–I highly recommend trying it, if at all possible)…That moment when you don’t think it’s going to fit and then something shifts—an opening rooted within—and suddenly your entire hand is being welcomed into another person. That moment when the rest of the world falls away and you’re so intensely, powerfully present in your body (and inside of someone else’s!). That moment when you cease to breathe because you cannot believe you could reach such ecstasy and still be breathing. Oh wait, yes, remember to do that. Breathe. In and out. And then again. And then you get lost in the pleasure of it all, in the incredible sensations that our bodies can create, in the profound connection between two (or more!) people. I once had one butch’s hand in my cunt, another boi’s fist in my ass…but that’s a story for another day.

Today’s story is an excerpt from a piece of mine that will be coming out in Best Lesbian Erotica 2012.

She smears thick lube across her entire hand, up over the knuckles, all the way to her wrist. I gasp in anticipation. I haven’t been fucked in a month and don’t think I can take that much. But she proves me wrong. Of course I can, four fingers sliding inside me with ease—sometimes she knows my body better than I do—and it’s only a matter of seconds before she curves in her thumb and my pussy swallows her fist whole. Surprisingly quiet, I’d have expected screams to be tearing through my vocal cords by now. Instead my diaphragm drops and I feel another opening up from deep inside. My ribcage expands and the back of my throat dilates as I wish it would when I deep-throat her cock. With the sharp twist of her wrist, she forces me to hit a pitch so high it’s barely audible and I shudder as the orgasm echoes throughout my entire body. I feel a sound escape my chest, originating from lower still. The purest note that ever graced my lips, it sails right past them and floats up in the air. I imagine an opera singer hitting her highest note.

Happy International Fisting Day, y’all!!

About Kiki DeLovely

I’m a queer, kinky, poly, witchy, femme, erotica writer who has lived and performed all over the U.S., as well as internationally. I’ve toured with Body Heat: Femme Pour Tour and various gender-based performance troupes and am published in numerous books, newspapers, and magazines. My greatest passions include searching out secret spots in nature, Oxford commas, deep woo, doing research for my writing, and bringing queer, kinky, smart smut to the masses. I long for/strive toward erotica that reads as fine literature, makes you think, and helps us connect with our spiritual selves.
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