Tag Archives: sexuality

Review: Show Yourself To Me: Queer Kink Erotica

I’m elated to be today’s stop on Xan West’s blog tour for Show Yourself To Me: Queer Kink Erotica, published by Go Deeper Press. Here’s the thing about going last. You risk repetition. You worry that everything’s already been said, … Continue reading

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A Healthy Appetite

I figured it was about time to get around to excerpting from an anthology that includes one of my stories, Appetites: Tales of Lesbian Lust. Edited by the illustrious Ily Goyanes, Appetites is the first part of Lizzie’s Bedtime Stories series. Despite … Continue reading

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Snogging for Sommer! Win a free prize!

Today I’m snogging for Sommer Marsden, a fabulous fellow erotica writer who is more than deserving of our support. Please click on the Smut For Good banner above to learn more, to help her family fight cancer, and to visit other … Continue reading

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Review: Overflow: Tales of Butch-Femme Love, Sex, and Desire

Miel Rose’s Overflow: Tales of Butch-Femme Love, Sex, and Desire had me in its grasp from the get-go. Anything dealing with butch/femme will inevitably draw me in. But Overflow is a whole lot more than just a catchy title with a … Continue reading

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Squealing with Delight

I’m terribly delighted to be kicking off the blog tour today for The Big Book of Bondage: Sexy Tales of Erotic Restraint published by Cleis Press and edited by the prominent princess of pornographic prose, Alison Tyler. I also have a story … Continue reading

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It Got Me Saying Please

I started writing erotica because I got bored. Bored with what was out there. Bored that none of the characters I encountered looked like me or my lovers. Bored with vanilla lesbionic sex stories. Bored with not getting turned on. … Continue reading

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Dearest Dualistic Thinkers

My latest column for The Triangle! Dearest Dualistic Thinkers, I’ve been hearing and reading a lot lately about a need for separation between sex and spirituality. This seems to be backlash, or perhaps reclamation, coming from kink and queer communities … Continue reading

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Review: Best Sex Writing 2012: The State of Today’s Sexual Culture

I’m reviewing Best Sex Writing 2012: The State of Today’s Sexual Culture as part of the book’s blog tour. What an exciting opportunity! But what exactly qualifies as sex writing? I found myself wondering this very question as I opened … Continue reading

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The Joys of Genderqueers

The other night there was a surprising online discussion at Naked Readers Book Club about Take Me There: Trans and Genderqueer Erotica. My story “Taking the Toll” was chosen as the excerpt (color me humbled) and so I figured I’d drop … Continue reading

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International Fisting Day!!

As a baby dyke, I was tricked into believing that fisting was illegal to show on film because my girlfriend at the time worked at a video store in Chicago well-known for its porn collection and one day she came … Continue reading

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