Author Archives: Kiki DeLovely

About Kiki DeLovely

A queer, kinky, femme, erotica performer/writer who has lived and performed all over the U.S., as well as internationally; my greatest passions include alternative baking, Oxford commas, doing research for my writing, and bringing queer, kinky, smart smut to the masses.

Review: Overflow: Tales of Butch-Femme Love, Sex, and Desire

Miel Rose’s Overflow: Tales of Butch-Femme Love, Sex, and Desire had me in its grasp from the get-go. Anything dealing with butch/femme will inevitably draw me in. But Overflow is a whole lot more than just a catchy title with a … Continue reading

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Review: Sudden Sex

Who doesn’t love a good work-related fantasy? After all, work is an often less-than-pleasurable activity that swallows up far too much of our time. So who wouldn’t want to mix a little business and pleasure? I’m of the belief that it … Continue reading

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Dearest Lovebirds & Those Who Fly Solo

Dearest Lovebirds & Those Who Fly Solo, Ah, February. That annoying little month when it’s still too cold outside to really be enjoyable; the stores are taken over by everything heart-shaped, red, or pink, and cheaply gaudy; and then, thankfully, … Continue reading

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Squealing with Delight

I’m terribly delighted to be kicking off the blog tour today for The Big Book of Bondage: Sexy Tales of Erotic Restraint published by Cleis Press and edited by the prominent princess of pornographic prose, Alison Tyler. I also have a story … Continue reading

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Hearths of Heart and Home

Dearest Hearths of Heart and Home, Winter is speeding our way. Time continues to slip past us all the quicker. The world as we know it is changing at dizzying, uncontrollable velocities. What better time to focus on getting one’s … Continue reading

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The Beauty of Loss

   Dearest Readers Who Know the Beauty of Loss,   A few weeks ago I had a dream that my grandmother transformed into a dragon and was flying through the sky giggling and without a care in the world – … Continue reading

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Dearest Most Fortunate North Carolina Dwellers

Dearest Most Fortunate North Carolina Dwellers, I’m coming to you hard on the heels of a huge weekend. Remember my last column? When I wrote about Femme Conference 2012? Well, I just returned late last night, am still sleep-deprived, and … Continue reading

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Girls Who Score…The Points Rack Up Quickly

Today is my day on the Girls Who Score blog tour! Yay! As I haven’t gotten my hands on a copy yet myself, I can’t tell you much about it, other than it was edited by the industrious, illustrious Ily … Continue reading

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Dearest Femmes and Femme-Appreciators

Dearest Femmes and Femme-appreciators, Every year August predictably brings us additional heat and humidity. (And with that, more swimming! I swam three times this week!) This year in particular, however, August brings us a unique gift – Femme Conference 2012: … Continue reading

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Review: The Harder She Comes

I fucking love this book! Occasionally I get sent books to review and I always offer up my honest opinion in exchange…whether good or bad…but seriously, I can’t say enough good things about The Harder She Comes, edited by D.L. … Continue reading

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